Sunday, January 4, 2009

Christmas without Pam

I'd better get it over with. My sister Pam was killed last July 3rd in a plane crash. She was my soul mate. Here we are without her. She was sorely missed. We love you Pam! It is excruciating. I want to write more about her and show you how beautiful she is but not right now.


  1. Hi Jane,

    I'm loving your blog, it's down-to-earth, celebrates simple pleasures and frustrations, and makes me feel I know you and your family a bit. I've shed a small tear here and smiled as well.

    I started a blog a couple of years ago too (, when my mother died, and then my father as well, seven months later. I couldn't stick with it; I couldn't walk the fine line of expressing what I actually felt without it being the written equivalent of page after page of sobbing. I tried to honour them in writing and it was just too thick. You are doing a really beautiful job for Pam.

    I don't usually comment on blogs, or share contact details online, but if you want to respond to me, send a message on Facebook (, I'd appreciate it.

    Be well.

  2. Thanks Sabrina...I sent you an email...did you get it?